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French Curves: TOTAL LOOK BLANC 

  
It’s the 16th of the month, y’all!!! Pour yourselves a glass of Chardonnay, grab yourselves a tasty baguette, and sit back and enjoy another fab French Curves post — the outfit photo challenge with the French touch, created by the splendid Vanoue of The Curvy and Curly Closet!

The theme this month: TOTAL WHITE LOOK!!!

As per usual, an English translation will follow! 

Il est encore une fois le 16 du mois, alors versez-vous un bon verre de chardonnay, et procurez-vous une bonne baguette bien savoureuse, relaxez-vous et enjoy une autre édition fabuleuse du French Curves Challenge, crée par la splendide Vanoue de The Curvy and Curly Closet ! 

Le thème ce mois-ci: TOTAL LOOK BLANC !!! 

  
 

Dans le défi du mois dernier, ne sachant pas ce que le thème de ce mois-ci serait, j’ai porté une magnifique robe blanche. Donc, quand le thème de ce mois a été annoncé, je me suis dit, oh oh !

  

Mais alors, un miracle de la mode a eu lieu !!! La collection capsule  GARNERSTYLE pour Rebdolls est sorti, et tous mes soucis ont simplement évaporé dans les airs !

  

Depuis le moment que je posé les yeux sur ce pantalon blanc à jambe large, et ce crop top aux épaules dénudées, je savais que je devais les avoir !

  

  

Honnêtement, si je n’étais pas déjà marié, cette tenue certainement aurait pu être ma ” robe” de mariage ! Voilà littéralement a quel point je l’aime !!!

  
 

En toute sincérité, Chastity Garner a vraiment frappé un coup de circuit avec cette collection ! Les vibes nautiques, les silhouettes décadents — elle a réussi, et tout ce que je peux dire c’est, OUIIIIIIIIII !!! 

  
In last month’s challenge I wore a gorgeous white dress, not knowing what this month’s theme would be. So when this month’s theme was announced, I said, uh oh! 
 
But then, a fashion miracle occurred!!! The GARNERSTYLE for Rebdolls capsule collection dropped, and all my worries just evaporated into thin air!  

  
From the moment I laid eyes on these wide leg white pants, and off-the-shoulder crop top, I knew I had to have them! 

  
Honestly, if I wasn’t already married, this outfit definitely could have been my wedding “dress!” That’s literally how much I love it. 

    
In all seriousness though, Chastity Garner really knocked this collection outta the park! The nautical vibes, decadent silhouettes — she did that, and all I can say is, YASSSSS!!! 


Vous pouvez decouvrir les contributions de toutes les French Curvettes ici, ainsi que sur la page Facebook et Instagram @frenchcurvesfashion !

You can discover all of the French Curvettes’ contributions here, as well as on Facebook and Instagram @frenchcurvesfashion

Pantalon, GARNERSTYLE pour Rebdolls – ici 

Crop top, GARNERSTYLE pour Rebdolls- ici 

Pochette, Aldo – ici 

Chaussures, Shoes of Prey – ici 

Pants, GARNERSTYLE for Rebdolls – here 

Crop top, GARNERSTYLE for Rebdolls- here 

Clutch, Aldo – here 

Shoes, Shoes of Prey – here

No Pants, No Problem 

Seriously… If I could live out the rest of my days without wearing pants and not have anyone look sideways at me — I would. Also winter. Winter would suck, but whatever. 

  

Honestly… I’m not even joking. I love being pantless. It’s a problem. 

Now, technically this fantastic little number from the insanely cool Nadia Aboulhosn collection for Boohoois a dress… Just not much of one on me. 

  

  
You see, when you factor in my 5’8″ish frame, long torso, and ample derrière, it’s kind of a triple threat — the ultimate weapon in the war on dress length (not really a thing, at least once you leave catholic high school and if plaid skirts count). 

   
 
But I was determined to wear this little piece of perfection the way Nadia Aboulhosn  and her adorably short torso had intended — AKA, in my case, pretty much show the entire neighbourhood the bottom of mah butt cheeks!!! Yeahhhhhh!!!  

  
  
  
So no pants, no problem! And I’d be willing to bet, Nadia would agree!!! 

  
  
Oh!!! And one last thing!!! 

  
Be sure to enter my #flightofthefatgirl11k giveaway on Instagram!!! Over $600 worth in prizes including: 

• A tutu from The TUTU Experience, hand crafted to measure by @misslionhunter • Items from @readytostare • “Thinner, Not Prettier” crop top from @flawsofcouture • $150 gift code from @sexyplus • $100 gift code from @igigistyle • $75 gift card from @penningtons • $50 gift code from @zelieforshe • $50 gift code from @bigsiscloset • $25 gift code from @smartglamour • And still more to be announced!!! 

  • Be sure to follow me, @flightofthefatgirl, on Instagram, and check out and follow all the amazing prize contributors!!! Contest rules and details posted here! Don’t miss out!!! 

Dress, Nadia Aboulhosn for Boohoo – here 

Shoes, Boohoo – here 

No, Honey 

I’m 100% body positive. I love my fat peeps, my skinny peeps, my short, tall, black, white, and everything-in-between peeps! I truly believe that every body is beautiful in its own unique way.

I’ve been fat my whole life. Even when I was suffering from anorexia and bulimia, and had shed over 100 lbs. In my mind, I was still fat.


It took me a hell of a lot of hard work to learn that I was worth loving. The fact that I truly believe it is something I’m proud of, because that realization may come easily to some, but it didn’t for me.

When somebody tries to take that kind of self-love away from me, or from anyone — I get angry.


I’m so sick of seeing women tear each other down in order to build themselves up!


Because I’m fat and pretty, it doesn’t mean you can’t be pretty and thin!


There is more than one way to be beautiful, and more than enough beauty in this world to go around!


Who is anyone to assume that it has anything to do with size?


Size is a tangible thing. You can see size, measure it — feel it… Beauty is all in our heads.


What I’m really trying to say here is — if you’re thin, go ahead and believe that you’re prettier than me. If that’s how you see it, than to you, it’s the truth.


But know, that my truth looks different. In my mind, the fact that you are thin doesn’t automatically qualify you to be beautiful.


Thinness isn’t a prerequisite to beauty — kindness is.



So no, honey. If you can’t see that your beauty standards do not define me, then just know that you’re thinner than me — not prettier — and don’t get the two confused.


Crop top, Flaws of Couture – here

Skirt, Eloquii – here

Clutch, Aldo – similar

Shoes, Payless – here

PS. Here are a few things I find beautiful, from an abandoned building, one of my favourite places to shoot!


  
  

Penningtons Date Night Vote

A couple of weeks ago, in a post for the Penningtons blog, I asked you to help me choose between three Penningtons outfits for a date night at The Keg with my hubby!

  
There were some very strong opinions, but there was a definite winner!!! 

  
Thank you all so much for your input!!! 

Be sure to head over to the Pennington’s blog to view more info on my three date night picks (here), and all the deets and more photos of my date night with the hubs (here)!!! 

All three outfits (minus shoes and accessories), Penningtons 

French Curves: BIKINI

  
It may not be the 16th of the July anymore, but that doesn’t mean a thing when you’re still celebrating the 2nd birthday of the French Curves Challenge!!! 

The gorgeous Vanoue of The Curvy and Curly Closet decided to extend the festivities by adding this extra special challenge to allow us to continue celebrating this special occasion! 

Please scroll down, all my English speaking beauties! A translation will follow!

Oui, le 16 du mois de juillet est déjà passé, mais ça ne veut rien dire quand nous fêtons toujours le 2ème anniversaire du French Curves Challenge !!! 

La resplendissante Vanoue, de The Curvy and Curly Closet a prolongé les festivités en ajoutant ce challenge extra spéciale pour nous permettre de continuer à fêter l’occasion ! 

Le thème aujourd’hui: BIKINI !!! 

    
   

L’été passé, je me suis retrouver dans mon premier bikini. Depuis ce jour, je me suis promis de ne jamais avoir honte d’en porter un. 

   


    

Il y a quelques années que jamais je pourrais imaginer que j’allais être aussi confortable aujourd’hui, en publique, en train de montrer mon ventre, mes cuisses et mes fesses au monde, mais coucooouuu !!! 

  

 

 Me voici !!! 
  
   
  

Je suis fabuleuse en bikini !!! 

  

 

N’oubliez pas, vous pouvez decouvrir les contributions de toutes les autres merveilleuses French Curvettes ici !!! 

Ainsi que sur la page Facebook French Curves, et sur Instagram, @frenchcurvesfashion !

Haut de maillot, Monif C. – ancien 

Bas de maillot, Swimsuitsforall.com – ici 

Haut à capuchon en maille, Addition Elle – similaire 


And now for my Anglo readers!

Today’s theme: BIKINI!!! 

Last summer I wore my first bikini since my childhood. Since that day, I’ve promised myself to never be ashamed to wear one. 

A few years ago, I never would have fathomed feeling this comfortable in public, showing off my tummy, my thighs, and my butt to the world, but yoohooooo!!! 

Here I am!!!

Totally fabulous in a bikini!!! 

Don’t forget, you can discover the contributions of all the other marvelous French Curvettes here!!! 

As well as on the French Curves Facebook page, and on Instagram, @frenchcurvesfashion

Bikini top, Monif C. – old 

Bikini bottoms, Swimsuitsforall.com – here 

Mesh hoodie, Addition Elle – similar 

Jorts

As I stepped out a couple of weeks ago in my denim shorts, my teenage son sarcastically commented, “mum, are you wearing jorts?”

  
“Jorts?” I wondered. The look of confusion on my face, obvious. 

  
“Jean shorts…? Jean. Shorts? Jorts..?” He exclaimed. 

  
Ahhh, of course. JORTS!!! How have I never heard this portmanteau? It’s brilliant! And it seems that I’m the last person to be aware of its existence!!! 

  
And yes — yes I am wearing jorts. And they’re awesome — even though my son seems to think otherwise. 

  
But whatever. He doesn’t know my life… 

   
That’s a lie. Yes he does — but I’m gonna keep wearing my jorts anyway!!!

  
   
Jorts (shorts), Penningtons – similar 

Top, Walmart – still available in store 

Sandals, Penningtons – here 

Dice ring, Ready To Stare – here 

Clutch, Ted Baker – old 

An Open Letter To The Woman Who Tried To Make Me Feel Ashamed Of My Body

Dear woman who tried to shame my body today,

There are a few things I’d like to say to you — a few things that I think you need to know; and I will lace my words with an excessive amount of photos of my glorious bod in a hot pink, see-through dress and bright red bikini, because I think it would do you good to see more of the body you decided to pick apart on social media today. 

  
As a blogger, in one of my weekly contributions to another blog, I was asking followers to help me pick between three outfits that I chose for an upcoming date night with my husband. I think I looked really cute in all of them, for the record — and, sometimes a girl just wants a little feedback! 

  
Anyway, you told me that “[my] belly sticks out,” that my shirt is “making [my] butt look larger” and that “[b]urgundy pants are not for [me]” because they “[s]how[] the cellulite in my legs.”

  

I answered you so politely when you criticized body. I told you that “I love my belly, my big butt, and my cellulite, as does my hubby! They’re part of me — no need to hide them! 😊 It’s not about looking thinner. The beauty of body acceptance is learning to love our flaws! ❤️”

  
You’re welcome to disagree with my view points and clothing choices all you want, but never once did I mention anything about your thoughts on my outfits. I also didn’t get upset… In fact, I think I gave a pretty polite and friendly response that spoke only of how I wasn’t ashamed of my body parts that you seemed to feel weren’t attractive. 

  
 
You, a plus size woman yourself, stated that you were entitled to your opinion, then proceeded to tell me that loving my body was a copout because I am too lazy to try to better myself and my health. (Really, you said it!) 

  
When I, again very politely, explained that I am in very good health, and wished you would realize that your comment was judgemental and uncalled for, you said that I must not be as secure as I claim to be because I was being defensive and over-sensitive. 

  
You told me there is classy and trashy, and that you guessed I had made my choice. You also reminded me, in case I had forgotten since your previous comment, that you had a right to your opinion. 

  
So, now, not only did you try to shame my body and my lifestyle, but you also went and called me trashy. 

  

You went on to say that that you had balls, and stood by your opinion… And that I shouldn’t be a blogger if I didn’t like it — somehow believing that it is your right to police my body, call me names, be blatantly rude, and that, because I have a blog, I’m not supposed to call you on it. 

  
Others jumped to my defence, but you attacked them too, and laughed at the whole situation, referring to a comment I had posted for someone else, explaining to them how taking back the word ‘fat’ had empowered me.

 
 
I politely excused myself from the conversation, stating that your perseverance was admirable, that you had so much potential, and I wished you could have used it to uplift your fellow women rather than tear them down. 

  
Soon after, your comment was removed. Obviously nobody was in agreement with your insults disguised as opinions, and false sense of entitlement… So, my apologies if the events may seem a little out of sequence, because again, your comment was deleted, which took all of your, my, and everyone else’s carefully crafted rebuttals with it, leaving me with only my tear-filled (sarcasm, in case you didn’t pick up on that) memories to refer to. You are entitled to your opinion, let’s just get that out of the way so you don’t have to say it again, but I will not let you believe, when you attack my body and character then accuse me of being insecure when I respond, that I can’t see right through your smug facade, to a woman who is filled with self-doubt, insecurity, envy and fear. 

  
I will also not allow you make me love myself any less than I did before reading your enlightening comments — in fact, they’ve made me love myself more! You see, when you show your true colours, and they’re dim, grey and muddy, they make mine shine much brighter. 

  

What you thought would stop me really just propelled me forward, and reaffirmed how important my blogging truly is. 

  

So what I’m really saying here, is thank you. Thank you for making me feel even more beautiful, secure, and important today. 

  
I know your intention was to make yourself feel better by trying to bring me down, so I’m sorry (not sorry) that I couldn’t help, but I would gladly love to offer you a compliment if you ever decide to actually post a profile picture of yourself one day. I’m sure you have all kinds of beauty that you just don’t see when you look in the mirror. 

   

And lastly, even though your attempts at hurting me failed miserably, I hope you come to understand that not everyone is as strong and confident as me. Not everyone will be able to take something wonderfully positive away from the experience of having a person try to publicly humiliate them; and not everyone will understand that your attempts at trashing their self-esteem, are really just projections of your own insecurities. 

Warmest regards, 
                            Cynthia xx

   
 
Dress, Zelie For She – here, or similar 

Bikini, Addition Elle – here