Tagged: Flight of the Fat Girl

Don’t Mess With Mama

I don’t really know how I would describe my own personal style if someone were to ask me. I don’t think I could accurately sum it up in a few words; and not because it’s so complex that a few words just wouldn’t cut it, but more because I feel a little all over the place with my style a lot of the time and I have a hard time committing to any particular look, as a rule. 

Sometimes I like a sporty, preppy look. Sometimes I like to go classic. Other times I’m looking country, and often I’m just trying to find a way for fashion to meet comfort somewhere near the middle, so that my stylish mind and sore feet can get along without too much of a fight… 

But the way I dress is without question, always a reflection of how I’m feeling; and today I woke up feeling just a little bit gangster.  As soon as I rolled out of bed this morning, I knew it was a “don’t mess with mama” kind of day; and I was definitely feeling the idea of rocking a street style that expressed my straight up, no nonsense attitude for all to see. 

This graphic sweatshirt, thick gold chain, and floral, five-panel hat from Forever 21 work so well together. I love the contrast between the simple, bold, black print, and the soft, feminine floral hat.  I’ve paired these pieces with light blue jeggings from Addition Elle, a cute ID bracelet and classic, almond-toed, nude patent pumps from Payless, to create a look that is a perfect example of street chic and one of my favorite daytime, weekend styles!

Oddly enough, my kids (and husband) have been listening to me pretty well today…  Coincidence?  Probably.  But I’m not complaining.  Ha!

 

Peace, Love and Color Blocking

Peace, Love and Color Blocking

I love 60′s inspired looks. Whether it be the early, short boxy jackets and pillbox hats, or the hippie style of bell bottoms and headbands seen towards the end of the decade – I love them all! But my absolute favorite looks were the products of the mid 60′s. Think mini skirts, geometric prints and color blocking. Think bold eyeliner and super light lips. It’s all so deliciously playful. So, it goes without saying that when I first laid eyes on this half & half, color blocked dress from Great Glam, a 60′s inspired look came immediately to mind.

There is something different, and so special about this dress, though. Instead of simple color blocking, the white side is textured with a tone on tone white pattern. I just love this revamped take on classic color blocking so much, that I decided instead of going straight up Twiggy, I would have my own crack at updating this mid 60′s look, too.

So, as an ode to the decade gone by, I mixed things up a bit, and combined the color blocking and the statement making makeup style of the mid 60′s with the elegance of the early years, as you can tell by my beehive inspired bun, and my modern take on Jackie Kennedy’s iconic, multi-strand pearl necklaces. Then, as a subtle nod to the tail end of the decade, a silver peace sign bracelet to tie everything all together.

Oddly enough, despite basically embodying the entire span of 60′s fashion at once, this look is still fresh; and I had such a blast thinking it up, and finding a way to stitch it all together seamlessly!

I Am Woman, Hear Me “Rawr”

Yay! The big day has come!!! What day, you ask? Why, the day I finally get to wear the incredibly sexy “Tricia” dress from Monif C. of course!!!

I’ve been obsessing over this dress since it was first posted in January for pre-sale, and I haven’t stopped coveting it since. At first I had reservations. I loved it, but wasn’t sure how I felt about the idea of a crop top. I know they’re all the rage right now, and I think they look super sexy, but I couldn’t cease thinking – how is a dress with a crop top going to look on the tummy of a mum of four who’s covered in stretch marks?

So, I went back and forth on the idea for a little while and then finally decided – so what if I have stretch marks!? I’ve been working so hard to accept my body and love the skin I’m in; am really going to let the insecurities I have about my stretch marks stop me when I’ve already come so far!? They are the product of carrying each of my four children in my womb – four little humans who depended on me, and still do, to live. They remind me of the sacrifices that I’ve made for my family and of how, no matter what happens, I gave life to four beautiful beings who are, and always will be a part of me and who I love with a love that is stronger than any other force imaginable. To be ashamed of my stretch marks is to be ashamed of my four greatest accomplishments and nothing about that makes sense.

In a way, this dress and my desire for it, somehow managed to push me to face a fear, to let go of my inhibitions and accept just one more aspect about my body that I had been insecure about. I don’t know if it was the fierce turquoise and tan animal print or the bodycon style that Monif C. dresses do so well, but it made me realize that this tiger momma has earned her stripes and I’m not gonna hide them anymore!!!

Rawr!!!

Ahoy Matey!

Ahoy!

Nautical themed clothing has been around for ages, and we all know the stereotype of the miserable, long faced kid, who’s been forced into a sailor suit (even though he is much too old for it) by his overbearing mum (often wearing a matching outfit) for a family portrait… Right?

Well… This look, while having a nautical vibe, is far from being the sailor suit in an awkward family photo. The striking navy and red color block “Marcie” dress from Monif C. is sporty yet sophisticated. I’ve paired it with lovely, white patent leather flats from Aldo, and gold jewelry to really anchor this look’s nautical feel without going overboard.  Having at least one fantastic nautical look in your wardrobe is a great way to ensure that your transition into spring will be smooth sailing!

I’d love to see some of your spring looks! Please email me your photos at flightofthefatgirl@gmail.com or hashtag me in your pics on instagram (@flightofthefatgirl) and I will choose somebody to feature on my Facebook page next week!